Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) works by cultivating mindfulness to observe thoughts and feelings without judgment, to accept uncomfortable thoughts and emotions as natural, to use cognitive defusion skills to liberate yourself from unhelpful thoughts, to clarify personal values to guide decisions, and take committed action aligned with values to move towards the life you want to lead.
That’s a reasonably correct description, but it doesn’t describe how it’s going to work for you.
We refer to this as “Practicing ACT” rather than its longer name because this work is not going to be done to you. It’s going to be done with you.
It’s a bit like the relationship between actor and teacher/director. The performance that matters is yours. You own it.
We will engage in a process of exploration and experimentation to get really clear on where you want your performance – your life – to go.
We’ll talk about stuff. What’s working? What’s not working so well?
There is some learning about how the mind and nervous system work. This can be revelatory when we discover that we’re not the only ones who have certain thoughts and feelings, nor are we alone in how we sometimes try to avoid them. There is a great benefit to be had by simply sharing with someone who does not judge you.
However, this work focuses on developing skills, not just knowledge. We use the sessions to explore and experiment with ACT-related skills to find and reinforce the ones that work for you. If you want to do something different, to get something different, we help you find out what this means for you. It can be energising and encouraging to discover there are new ways to deal with persistent obstacles or inhibitors.
When we determine what works for you, you will test and practice using these skills in real life. You will collect feedback to be addressed in future sessions.
We don’t have any illusions about how hard it can be to learn new skills. You need to give your mind time to adapt and grow.
For individuals, we offer a six-session program and a 10-session program to private and corporate clients.
We will customise the program with you during a complementary online meeting, which you can book using this link.
For teams and learning groups, we offer a range of learning and skills development workshops, which we would also customise during a complementary online meeting or in response to a development brief.